Pat,
If you are saying there is no difference between me and George, I agree. I wish I could be less negative but for that to occur people will need to be less stupid.
I was content to let this thread die... but I can't say I can leave this unanswered.
There may be no difference in a literal sense, in that we are both commenting critically - and in my case, I would say I am
highly critical of John - but we are world's apart in where we are coming from. I have worked hard here to develop a sense of community where everyone feels he can say almost anything that is substantively critical and the response will be to address the substance, not call people names, call them stupid, call them idiots, whatever. One can disagree that I've made any progress in this way - and I in fact have stated several times that I do NOT think I have - but that's where I'm coming from.
John, well, he says it all in the above quote.
Since John seems a student of modern culture, I'll put it this way:
John's view: Hate the critic, not the criticism - or hate both, it's your choice
My view: Hate the criticism, not the critic - or hate neither, it's your choice
I will also say again that there is room for both. But I think it's wrong to equate the approaches in some sort of metaphysical "all criticism is criticism, all negative comments are negative" way. If you choose to believe that, fine, don't expect me to agree. that exhibits a lack of perspective and judgment that I do not abide.
I know I would be better off ignoring John's posts, but I guess that's a failing of mine, much like John can't fail to attribute the worst motives to everyone.
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Interesting post, Peter.