In the words of Johnny Carson...this is some weird, wild stuff! (insert smiling emoticon)
First of JC and Eric, thanks. I appreciate the kind words and gestures.
Ben, thanks for the PM. I actually read it before I read this thread.
Hmmm...where to start. Clients vs. friends.
My two best friends from the Marines, whom I met in the early 1990's, have been in and out of Afghanistan/Iraq since 2001/2002. I rarely see them, but do communicate via email and the phone. The last time they were State-side, I popped up to DC to see them. And they don't golf...they actually laugh at the fact that I golf. They lift weights, train hard core in the martial arts, shoot, and blow things up. Golfing is for sissy's in their mind. So...I ain't inviting them to Sand Hills!
I used the word clients rather than friends to distingush between GCA guys and non-GCA guys. Poor choice of words...maybe. I get that. But many of my clients are my best friends and I've worked with many of them for 15 years or so. They've been there for the birth of my two children, they visited me in the hospital during my two surgeries, and they've, essentially, taught me the game of golf. They like to go to play golf as well. In fact, I just got back from spending the entire day with two of them. They frequent amazing golf courses too. In fact, tonight we made plans for Pine Valley this summer (and some other courses you wouldn't believe)...they are buddies with members. They do things like this often. Hence, my wanting to repay them for their generosity with the Sand Hills invite. But, alas, they didn't want to go to Nebraska. DUMB ASSES!!! (insert smiling emoticon)
But this opened the door for me to invite Eric, meet John and Adam. And start that thread and get Tony out to Sand Hills. Like I mentioned before, it all worked out for the best. I can tease my local friends/clients about being so stupid turning down a Sand Hills invite and I got to meet people whom I hope are friends for life. Win-win!
And I get the fact that through this internet communication sometimes it is hard to effectively communicate, things might be taken the wrong way, wording isn't correct, frustrations can boil up, things like that. If you have an issue with me, you can call me, email me, or IM me to talk about it. I'm not a pussy, I won't run from things like this. I've been through the ringer in life many times over (high school sports, state championships, Marine Corps, Somalia, martial arts champion, medical mis-diagnosis, double hip replacement before the age of 37, starting two practices/business, dealing with the Great Recession, tech bubble, being a husband and father) and talking about issues on a golf course architecture site is not really going to phase me. Let's talk about it, work it out, and move on. If it is a fundamental disagreement that will never be solved. Fine. We can agree to disagree and avoid one another. But I doubt that will be the case.
Anyway...a lab on amphetamines. Seriously!! (insert smiley) Yeah, I kind of get that too. But, hey, what can I say...I freakin' love the game, I get passionate about talking about it...and maybe in a way that very few do. But if the shoe fits...wear it!!
Ben...I'll pop you a PM now.