George...
In all seriousness, the only course of the bunch you've mentioned that I have played is The Bear's Club. So, I don't know if it is the best of the three or not...but, despite the fun and games Ron and I are going on about, the club is extremely memorable and was an unbelievable treat to have seen.
The clubhouse is off the charts amazing, a big golden bear in the lobby, lots of Jack's trophies through out the clubhouse, a really cool par 3 course, and an immaculately maintained golf course. The course itself is very difficult and seemingly set up for a PGA type of golf course feel. For a day, I felt like a King being on the premises. If you friend is a fan of Jack Nicklaus, the golfer or architect, it is a must see.
I don't know if that helps or not, but I hope so.