I guess I will repost this here to stop a seperate thread from getting sidetracked.
In the Contentment GC thread, I posted my concern that the market for these courses is limited to a very small number of people.
As someone with limited connections and limited time, I've only played two private courses in my life (my father-in-law's course, and I was lucky enough to be invited to a charity scramble at Robert Trent Jones GC here in DC). And I don't even have kids yet. I now have a job where I don't work weekends, but even now I am going to a wedding here, a football game there, visiting my in-laws, working on the home, visiting my mother (who is long-term sick), etc. I maybe get 2 "getaway" weekends a year, and then one or two week-long+ vacations. The weeklong vacations are with the wife (and generally to some place interesting - for instance, I will be needing golf recommendations in Nha Trang hopefully soon). The getaways could be to Ballyhack I guess, but it is just as easy to go to Homestead, Greenbriar, or (given my budget and needs) Wintergreen.
My wife is against me joining a local private club. I would not even bother bringing up a national one. As I said, I am clearly not the target audience. But I do believe I am more and more the profile of the average upscale golfer, and I wonder if these courses can survive without catering solely to what Veblen appropriately calls "the Leisure Class."
I'd also say that - despite the limited connections - you would think that I would be on the verge of the target audience. Relatively young, no kids yet (therefore diposable income), professional class, who this year actually played more golf away from the District (3 rounds in Jamaica, 5 in Mexico, 2 in central Virginia, 1 in Indiana, and had to miss possible rounds in Minnesota and Michigan) then in the DC area (1 charity golf outing, 1 client-development round, 4 rounds at various CCFAD/municipal courses). If I can't see the appeal in membership, I doubt they will take off to many other newly-upper-class professionals either.