Ben - a real good post. And as a mid handicapper too, I think I'd have the same experience as you did. There's nothing wrong with taking an ass-kicking once in a while. (Reminds me of Richard Pryor's story about walking into a bar with football great Jim Brown. Some guy wanted to show off, so he yells out, "Jim Brown, I'm gonna kick your ass!". To which Brown calmly replied, "Well then, I guess that's one ass-kicking I'm gonna have to take" -- leaving the now terrified toughie to ease himself out of the bar very quickly).
George, Tom P and Bob - good posts too, thanks.
Tom D - thanks for that. I think what JN was about to do there is what others have done all too often (in North America, over the last 25 years) -- he was ready to throw in the towel a tad too quickly, and in the name of 'improving a poor site.' I can't imagine that the architects who designed-built the best of the 'average Englsih courses' did that very often. This reminds me: when I was 10 years old we went to visit relatives in Brooklyn. One of them was a big baseball fan, and I learned about and became enamoured with Mickey Mantle, especially his spectacular Triple Crown year in 1956. Later, as I got older, I learned about and switched my allegience to Lou Gehrig -- the kind of man he was, but mostly his 2130 consecutive games. The 'long-haul', the 'consistent performer', the 'consumate professional' had become more appealing to me than the spectacular. But THEN, I learned that Gehrig had ALSO won the triple crown with (I just went to look this up) 49 HRs, 165 RBIs, and a 363 average (and all this following Ruth in the batting order!!). Sorry, rambling -- all of which is to say, it seems to me that if you AIM for the spectacular you're going to miss as often as you succeed (and in gca, that means ending up with many courses that look like amusement parks); but if you aim instead to be the consumate professional over the long haul (and in gca, this means always trying to route the best course you can on the land as it presents itself), you'll achieve that PLUS achieving greatness every once in a while.
Peter