Melvyn...
I LOVE that article. In fact it ties in perfectly with my 2nd to last post (#18) and I feel it is a nice dovetail to my last post (#33).
Now some will disagree, but that is fine. Golf is a diverse game and people can play for diverse reasons. But I certainly share those many of the sentiments of that post.
Also, even though I am an American with military experience I take no offense to the seemingly negative comments on American golf. Frankly, I think it might be correct.
Weren't almost all of the Scottish courses public, community-centric, and the focal point of entertainment for an entire town or city? And weren't most of the early American courses private? Again, I am not trying to start a war of words or idealologies...as I am indeed a proud American...however, I find this distinction important and interesting.
Anyway, I re-iterate that taking a different mental attitude towards what the game is might help people enjoy the game more. And for sure, I am very competitive in life, business, sports, etc. But the two biggest joyous pastimes for me are golf and playing my guitar. Both of which I try to improve and get better, but I am focused on enjoying the journey rather than myopically focused on a self-appointed goal (like a score or a handicap level).
In fact, I think I am changing my goals for golf from handicap driven to behaviour driven. I intially set handicap levels I wanted to achieve on a quarter by quarter basis when I first started playing with the idea of being scratch by year 5. Thus far, I am a bit ahead of pace...but I think I am going to change my goals to 100% observation of the rules and better etiquette on the course. Now, I don't think I am an abomination on the golf course, but many times the groups I play with take mulligans off the first tee and things like that and I still don't know all the rules relative to drops and I didn't know you couldn't repair spike marks on the green prior to last week. But I will get better at these things this year and into the future.
But don't mistake me for preaching to anyone...if people don't want to focus on what I think is important...that is fine. I am not saying others need to do this...but I am going to...as I think it speaks to what the game is all about and how it should be played.
Thanks Melvyn.