Kyle
So far as I am concerned, a score is meaningless if own your own because if you are on your own there is no competitive pressure. You can't win or lose - nothing is at stake.
18 month ago I began donating $500 to St. Jude's Hospital for Children every time I break 80. When I am playing against friend, the most I ever bet is probably $5 and we're often just playing for bragging rights. Which of the two would you consider to be greater competitive pressure? For me, I can assure you it is the former and it exists even if I'm playing alone. I'd also argue that it makes my score quite meaningful rather than meaningless.
I love to play match play against others so the blow-up hole here or there doesn't take someone completely out of the match - those that I play with aren't scratch golfers, so we do tend to have some triple bogeys or worse. That being said, score matters to me as well and I enjoy knowing what I shoot.
I don't understand why folks dig in their heels on this topic. I've played and gotten along with "scorekeepers" as well as "who gives a $hit about my score guys" from this site and enjoyed my time with both. As long as you can keep up with the group in front of you, play however you'd like as far as I'm concerned.
I played a round in early September where I kept track of every stroke despite not having played in almost 6 weeks because I was +1 through ten holes and I very much wanted to know what I was going to shoot (for the record I blew up and shot 84!) I played a round 4 weeks later where I didn't use a single yardage aid or step off a single yardage the entire round and picked up on a few holes and have no idea what I shot even on the holes where I didn't pick up. I had a blast both days - primarily because the company and the pace were top notch each time.
You are all right about the best way to play golf - all of you on both sides of the argument. As with religion and politics, there is someone out there that you know in your heart is wrong and they are equally certain of the error in your ways.
PS - This turned out to be a longer post than intended and it was not all directed at Sean. I just quoted him because my original intent was to provide a different perspective on competitive pressure.