Donal,
I'm with you. I play golf as a sport, even if I'm not good at it. I like to know what I have scored because it gives me an indication of how my game is. I'm intelligent enough to realise, however, that if I take a 9 on a hole it doesn't make it a bad hole or that if I score badly it's a bad course.
I understand the arguments put forward by the anti-card and pencil lobby. However, if a large proportion of golfers take a 9 on a hole then I would question whether it is a good hole. That is not to say, however, that a hole where there is an option to make an easy(ish) bogey I wouldn't choose to risk a big score by going for the dramatic par or birdie. I haven't played the 16th at CPC, I'd love, one day, to get the chance. If I ever do, there is no way I'll lay up (unless it's in the even more unlikely event that I'm playing a strokeplay competiion of some sort!). I loved the 5th at Anstruther, despite putting 4 balls in the North Sea trying to drive that green. I know, however, that in a competition there I'd lay up.
I wonder if Brent is right and that the problem with card and pencil is really (yet another) problem with the USGA handficapping system?