Sorry if our arrangement offends your sensibilities. I don't think our socially-oriented members would care to see me leave the club and I know for sure that I wouldn't want them to leave.
Brent, your arrangement doesn't offend me in the least. I just find it difficult to fathom how a country club (or any organization) can continue to prosper if everyone is "slightly unhappy" all the time or worse, as JMEvensky describes, a club that is run like the U.S. House of Representatives, with rulers and subjects trading places and bitterly imposing their will after every election--truly dysfunctional.
In my golfing career, I have belonged to only one club (none currently), still I know there can be squabbles. I assume nobody wants to belong to the Country Club of the Terminally Melancholy--the credo of every club should be "give the members what they want." That requires, first, recruitment of members with similar sensibilities that are not easily offended, and then second, creativity to come up with solutions when problems do arise, then rinse and repeat--is that a club that exists only in a dream world?
"Half of the people can be part right all of the time,
Some of the people can be all right part of the time,
But all the people can't be all right all the time.
I think Abraham Lincoln said that.
I'll let you be in my dreams if I can be in yours.
I said that."
-Bob Dylan