I liked what somebody said earlier about a person expecting the 15th green to be in the middle of the wide corridor, and how it leaves the golfer startled and perplexed that it isn't. To me the bowl to the left of the green reminded me of what people say about Pinehurst #2. Ross might give the golfer the impression that missing a green to one side looks scary (as in the trees appearing to be so close to the right of 15), especially when there is all that fairway mown grass to the other side. Unfortunately, I found the left bowl on 15 once and it took me 3 tries with the putter to get it to stay up top...
The thing I loved about Kingsley is the raw emotions that it brings to the forefront when playing the course. I can't think of too many other courses where a few shots to me just seemed terrifyingly difficult (2, 9, approach on 13, everything about #6, and I'm sure I'm missing some others). The interesting theme is that many of these shots come with some of the shortest clubs in the bag. I can see where that might turn some people off to the course because they expect to be able to hit the typical wedge shots and spin them back to the holes without really having to think too much. That's what's unique about the course- the so called easy "shots" can put the fear of God in you.
When I first played there about 6 years ago, I made a 10 on the 2nd hole. It was not pretty, and I'll just say #9 didn't go very well either. On the way up to Michigan for the GCA outing in June, I must say that those holes were especially on my mind. So to play each of the holes 2 over par in 3 rounds that weekend made me feel like I had really accomplished something to be proud of. I also found that the tee shot on 6 wasn't nearly as scary as it looks, but it still took me a few rounds to actually believe it.
On top of all this, I think Mike did a great job of making some of the other approach shots that looked "easier" because there weren't any big bunkers, big mounds, or apparent drop-offs play more challenging than they appeared. Bogey, you're right about that 12th green. That little crescent depression to the right makes you think, doesn't it? And then the approach on #3, with it's huge target and lack of trouble fronting the green (except the big hole to the right) gives a golfer the impression that it isn't a big a deal where you wind up hitting it in relation to the pin. Of course, when one arrives at the green and sees the bold contours, you realize after the fact that you may be screwed.
I have never belonged to a club, either growing up or now. So I got used to and now enjoy playing lots of different courses for the variety of it. Now I almost feel that I wouldn't want to join a club, especially one with just 18 holes, because I would get bored playing the same holes over and over. But courses like Kingsley and Crystal Downs in Michigan (I'm sure there's more, but I'm from the south...) would never bore me because they both provide so many different options on how to play the holes, especially with the natural winds that accompany each site, and the fact that they bring out such strong and exciting emotional reactions when playing them.