"When you go to someone's house for dinner, do really need to rip the host if it's not to your taste?"
jeffwarne:
Definitely you do. Around here---Philly----the City of Brotherly Love, it is almost a requirement that you rip your host's house even if you find nothing wrong with it. Ripping the host himself or herself is just fine too---even the cooking or the children. Around here we live under the Credo articulated close to 50 years ago by the great social observer and social critic, Dring Wetherill (Uber Deb, Fernanda's brother).
Dring's social credo was articulated by him thusly: "If you can't deck your friend, who can you deck?"
When we go out to dinner at our friends' houses and we don't rip them to shreds in various ways I think they might begin to wonder if we really are their friends.
Apparently ANGC does not live by the great social observer and social critic, Dring Wetherill's articulated social credo!