Courses worth "groveling" to play??
Goodness, Gracious, Great Balls of Whatever!!
Any club that in any way promotes that idea or encourages it or certainly is acutely proud of it isn't worth much more than some "Studio 54" mentality, in my opinion. And I think some know what happened to Studio 54 and it's proponents and proprietors!
On the other hand, there surely does seem to be some semi-undefinable elitist factor or characteristic at work in golf that seems to be almost drug-like seductive to some who probably think of themselves as the "Have Nots" in all of this and it seems like it's been that way for a very long time. Some expansive thinker may even conclude that it may be some beneficial essence to do with golf itself in some small albeit important and strange way.
In that vein, I just love to tell the following story and like a lot of my stories I may have told it before on here (I can't remember at this point).
It had to do with one Pat Rooney (a member of the Rooney family from Pittsburgh who own the Steelers who are about to tee it up in a few hours in the Super Bowl). Pat owned and/or ran the Palm Beach dog track and my dad was so in love with greyhound racing and owning he seemed to take us to the Palm Beach Dog Track ever other evening for an elaborate dinner and the dog races.
Pat just loved golf and belonged to a ton of clubs all over the place, particularly in Ireland but for some reason he looked at Seminole as sort of the Holy Grail that he would somehow never be allowed to see or able to see and play.
I don't think Dad ever even realized that about Pat but eventually I did and so I said: "Hey Dad, why don't you take Pat to Seminole, because I guarantee he'll love it", and since there wasn't much Dad wouldn't do for Pat anyway.
And so one day he did and afterwards I was watching Pat and I said: "What is it Pat?", and Pat said: "You mean this is all it is?"
So I had to say: "This is all it is, what exactly were you expecting it to be?" Pat sort of said: "I guess I don't really know, I guess I never exactly thought about it in detail."
God I just love that story, I think it pretty much says it all in this vein of this thread.