For the women who hit it relativly long and complain about driver being taken out of thier hand, why not just play back 1 set of tees on those holes?
I've played with a few women over the years who played from the same set of whites as us and they kept up pretty well.
If you delve a bit deeper, I bet that's not reallly the complaint. I bet it's as I suggested, they are forced to lay up, then are left with too-long shot to the green.
As a male, imagine playing a tight, tree-lined dogleg par four of 455 yards, where the design of the hole forced you to hit 7 iron off the tee.
So your only reasonable play would be 7 iron, three wood, wedge.
It can happen pretty easily when you move the forward tees up on an old-style golf course.
We have one on our old Ross course, and there's no way to fix it. It's 385 from the whites, 302 from the reds, and the ideal spot for your drive is ~140 yards from the green. Hit it too far and it can trickle onto a steep downslope covered with rough.
With the prevailing wind, firm fairways, my wife has to be careful about hitting it too far off the tee. But then she's left with a three wood or five wood off a hanging lie.
It's her least-favorite hole on the course.
K