I am in line with Jordan's thinking. The big name courses seem more special if visited less, and are more intense for day to day play when you really feel like just going out with friends and whacking it around on a comfortable walk (although not wanting to play everyday at a push over either).
If I lived in Nebraska, it would be Wild Horse for everyday, not SHGC or BallyNeal, even if cost was no object.
Here in GB, I am very happy with my yearly unlimitted play at Brown County GC, and wouldn't want to play something like any of the Kohler courses, or The Bull, or some of the top venues nearby as an everyday thing, including the GBCC (not walking friendly) here. Of course, Lawsonia can qualify for a top venue and an everyday course.
An everyday course should have some challenging holes or shots, yet also offer a comfortable venue. Perhaps if I were a much better golfer, I would look at the more intense courses as everyday venues more favorably. But, at my stage, I want to play more enjoyable and entertaining golf; not beat me up every hole and embarrass me golf. And, I love the prospect of not loosing more than a ball or two per round... which leaves out big watery grave hazard courses...