Sean,
Thanks for the clarification. That's what I thought you were going for, I definitely think there is a difference between the two. I recently posted about a course that I enjoy, but would consider too punishing to make it a course I would want to play everyday. After empying out a fresh box of Pro-V's and standing on the tee playing my third shot for the fifth time in the round, you start to feel like you've just gone 15 rounds with Ali, and never landed a punch. The course is not necessarily to tough as you say, but poorly struck shots are punished very severely.
Or maybe I'm just a wuss.