"how far is too far" for destination golf?
There are way too many factors to answer this question without qualification. I feel that one has to consider the architecture, the maintenance, the accomodations, the food, the transportation, the cost, and the weather, in an effort to quantify the Overall Golfing Experience to determine what is too far.
Personally, I live 3 hours from Sutton Bay, 3.5-4 hours from Sand Hills, about 5 hours from Red Mike, 5 hours from Hawtree, Devil's Tower ins 1.5 hours away, maybe 3.5 hours from Ballyneal, and 3.5 hours from Bully Pulpit. Great golf and relatively affordable!
Would I drive back to Red Mike to pay $35 for a round of golf - No
Would I drive to Ballyneal and pay $400 for a round of golf - Yes
Would I drive to Sutton Bay and pay $400 for around of golf, meal, and accommodations - Yes, maybe - depends on if kids need soccer shoes or if .
Would I pay $400 to introduce someone to Sand Hills or Prairie Club - absolutely.
Would I drive to Wild Horse and play golf for $?? - heck yeah if it was associated with a trip to the area.
Would I play Bayside if I was passing thru - not likely
Where does my line start: Good Architecture at a reasonable price, ($400 all inclusive) within 4 hours drive at this point with regard to local destination golf - if that is such a thing
Bandon is likely an exception for me.