TEPaul,
You'll have to point out what it is you would like for me to elaborate on.
I fully agree that for those who play the game with some seriousness, we do hold on to the traditions, courtesies, etiquette, etc. As I noted in another thread (the one where David M. took exception to my comments regarding Geoff Shack.), I think there is a human tendency to look at the past romantically and at the future with some apprehension and suspicion. I doubt that the golfers new to the game in eras past were better in terms of their behavior and knowledge than they are today, though societal inhibitions and customs of those times (not as many folks probably felt as free to let their freak flags fly) may have made them less obnoxious.
In my opinion, the gentility of the game, its sportsmanship, its fine traditions will never die. Golf may not grow like some in the industry may wish, but there will continue to be considerable pockets where it retains those qualities which make it not just a special game or sport, but a lifestyle for many of its devotees.
Golf in the U.S. will never be as popular as baseball, football, and basketball. Its roots here were different than in Scotland and the UK. Not only do we not have affordable land within the large population centers, the U.S. is a much more diverse country and becoming more so each day. Moving forward, there are also some interesting demographic factors coming into play. I don't believe it is reasonable to expect popular interest in the game nor would I measure golf's success accordingly.
Peter P.,
I've encountered similar sentiments stated a bit differently. Having lived elsewhere and travelled widely, a beauty of this country is that it allows people with widely divergent beliefs to largely do their thing. It ain't perfect, but what is? I will see if I can locate the essay you were referring to. A different perspective is always welcomed. Thanks for the reference.
Mike Golden,
My pain is self-created and I can do something about it. Right now, golf does not appear to be important enough to me to take serious action. You suggested one strategy earlier- joining a men's club at the local muni- and I am thinking about it. Until I can get my head right about sticking around, joining a private club just does not make sense.