Paul, I would love to join you but my wife and I will be celebrating our 10th out in Carmel that weekend. Hope to get up there in the summer at some point. See you the 18th at Marquette Park 
lets see, what would i pick: maybe the most beautiful place on the planet and some of its greatest golf courses with my wife on a big anniversary,
OR
a round of golf (on an very good course , granted) with guys like me and Kyle....
yea, I'd say you are making the right call Jack!
have a great trip and see you soon