Pat, outside of GCA circles, I don't think i have ever heard a golfer use the word "width" in the context of discussing the merits of a course. And very, very few ever use the associated word - strategy.
At risk of stating the very obvious/familiar, i think most of these players have been brainwashed by what they see on TV and what they read. Accordingly, they judge courses mostly in terms of their difficulty, and their conditioning. Everyone wants a well conditioned course, and the great fear is that your home course be considered too easy. This is a very bad thing! So anything which is associated with making things easier - which is superficially what greater width is seen to offer - makes them nervous.
Possibly this is because the greens on their courses are too soft and hence greater width DOES make them easier.
So I suppose if you are going to talk width, then you need to talk angles, and you need to talk strategy, and you need to talk "firm and fast" - they all hang together. And, by and large, to your topic, these are not part of the average golfers vocabulary/thinking - so this crowd is indeed, as we all know, well out of sync.
Ultimately, surely, one has to persuade people to think in terms of good = enjoyable/interesting, not good = tough. Against that backdrop, width makes sense - otherwise it just leaves people bemused, wondering why you want to make things easier.