JES -
when I'm at my worst, there's no point in trying to play conservatively; I'll be lousy any way you slice it. In fact, I find I play better when I'm playing aggressively but smartly, i.e. picking out a small target, taking one club more than I need, and expecting to pull off the shot.
There are probably as many ways to shot 90 than there are to shot 72, maybe more. We're all different. I tend to take courses as they come - wide is good, narrow is fine, openings to greens are nice, forced carries I deal with, lots of bunkers are okay, but more interesting and fun are green surrounds mowed short, 6700 yards I can handle, 6200 yards is easier. In short, I try to score the best I can; those scores vary widely; I blame no one but myself for the big numbers. I'd like to play the same course you do, sometimes even from the same tees. I may not be a tiger, but since I'm a grown man I don't like being treated like a rabbit either.
But, I think that what I really like to see on golf courses will stay the same even as I get better. For me, that comes down to something like "wanting to be left alone". I don't mean not having other players around; I mean not wanting the architect in my face and his fingerprints all over the course (no matter how nice a fellow he might be).
I don't want signifiers and directional beacons and obvious strategies that are insulting to my intelligence and to my appreciation for the game. A bunker that's no bunker at all is more annoying to be in (because it's artificial) than one that means something, to both me and you. I want the land the golf course sits on to look a lot like the land I saw driving up to the course; no less rugged or no less quiet. I like openess and vistas and nature; and I like flat greens when the land is flat and undulating ones when the land is undulating.
Generally, I don't want the architect to be doing me any favours. Well, maybe a couple, but then he's got to hide the favour so well that I won't realize the gift until days or years afterwards. Actually, not even that: the good score I shoot because of those favours doesn't end up satisfying me so much upon reflection.
I have dreams. I want to be a much better player. I think I can be. I think a golf course should let me dream, instead of not-so-subtly confirming my fears that I suck and that I always will -- which is the feeling I get when architects try to play it too smart, figuring that customers paying top dollar won't notice that they're hitting it further only because every tee is elevated, or that the bunkers are are out of play because the big mounding that feeds everything back to the centre makes them nearly irrelevant.
Peter