I can not express how dissappointed I am that I will have to protect him from these people.
John:
When my son was younger he would complain about other competitors in his group overtly cheating in any manner they could, mostly giving the wrong score, even with parent markers present.
As these kids aged and were left on their own without markers most didn't change their ways and some became even more blatant. A few had parents who seem to be of the ilk you describe above.
Well, one opponent my son had been paired with in previous years (a chronic liar, cheater) kicked his ball out of the rough on 18 and my son after years of holding his tongue called him on it. The kid simply denied it.
When my son told the tournament officials what had happened their response was no one else saw it so it was my son's word against his competitor's. No penalty. His opponents Dad went ballistic and caused quite a scene which is when I came to pull my son away from this mayhem.
Anyway, another competitor's granddad had sat for most of the afternoon under a tree near the 18th green with BINOCULARS and witnessed the footwedge and took the initiative to join the fray telling officials he also saw what my son had.
The tournament committee made the kid walk back up the hill in front of all who had gathered to replay the second half of the hole from the point he had kicked the ball adding a two stroke penalty.
Not sure if this deterred the little thief and his rude father but I'm sure it made more of an impression than if he were simply disqualified.
Gene