Kmoum,
I am somewhat surprised by your responses, considering you're a superintendent. Are these discussions with other golfers, or other superintendents?
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Just assumed he was, at one point, a superintendent. Sorry, Ken, if I stepped on any toes.
You're not the first person to think that, so don't worry about it.
Some background -- I am a longtime editor/writer. Prior to working where I do now, I was an information officer for a state game and fish agency for 23 years and I have a degree in wildlife and fisheries science, but never practiced.
Back to the subject at hand. I answered your questions in reference to my interaction with other golfers, and that's how I find them. For the mos part, they don't seem to care about the architecture, other than to complain about stuff they think is "unfair."
I don't recall having many discussions about architecture with superintendents either before I got my current job (in 1999), or after. When I do get to meet superintendents on their courses, we spend nearly all the time talking about maintenance-related stuff.
I don't get to do it nearly as often as I'd like, but the experience is always a joy.