Michael,
I've even explained to you in previous posts that the manner here should be no different then if you were in the finest club in America (Ran's long time rule) How much more explaining do you need?
This has always been the rule of this website's discussion group and many older members know this, so to make it especially easy for yourself, go by that rule from now on.
Tim,
This isn't about making anyone do anything that they don't want to do. This is about trying to reel-in the discussions and tighten them up. Make them better. This is a golf course architecture site, where once in a while we stumbled on to something that was related to other great things related and non-related to golf. There are just too many complaints about college football threads, soccer threads and the like. And while it is easy to just avoid them by not clicking on them, over half of you that don't post on these types of threads don't like them on this GOLF site.
As Mark Pearce as noted, it isn't easy dealing with complaints about threads, complaints about people, complaints about access, this guy didn't pay this, this guy didn't show-up for that. and so many other different things. However, I'm in agreement that keeping it on one subject can be sometimes a quick recipe for stagnation. However, I think the problem lies more in behavior.
This website never once had to face these issues, and my challenge was simple: talk golf architecture and see what you can learn or share which will make this be the beacon of light that furthers the art and changes the future. Who give a damn about Michele Wie or What Tiger said to Arnie especially if it isn't golf course architecture related. Just recently we had a thread where someone was critical of a certain private club. Another person went after this opinion with vim and vigor, enough that it was removed. In the old days we could be critical, and we did it in hopes of architects making the art, THEIR ART, better. Now we get threats of racism, screams of bias, and the blows of bad behavior. I could go on and on.
Bob, I'll address you either in an IM or on the phone tomorrow. I want to say something that needs to be said, and honestly, it's no one else's business. Please let me know a good time to call.