Matt,
From what I see in Sean and Steve's posts, there is no disagreement with what I mentioned in the email to you.
It is about an hour from Capilano which is, of course, a must, but very private. Others to play are Shaughnessy in particular, then Point Grey, Vancouver Club (also in Coquitlam but on much less severe land) and Marine Drive, all private.
If you have time, Victoria Club is very old and unique.
As I mentioned, feel free to contact me and I will help in any way.