A few months ago I was playing with a GCA'er, and he was a pro, so he gave me a few strokes.
He didnt want to give me strokes though, and he told me he didnt want to.
I asked why, and he said it was dumb. He thought that golf was the only game where the good players were penalized.
And, I agree.
Is it not true that, by using handicaps, the better players are, in a way, penalized for being good?
Quite the silliest thing I've heard on this board.
The very best players in the world play off scratch with no handicap allowance on the various major, minor and sub-minor tours. The best amateurs have dozens of competitions where handicaps are an irrelevance, except for the purpose of qualifying, perhaps. Even your local club championship will be a scratch competition.
Handicap golf is to allow players of different abilities to enjoy competing with each other. It has a natural place in club competition and makes golf almost unique amongst sport in allowing players of all abilities to compete with each other.
Does it mean that Tiger Woods is penalized? No, of course not because at that level handicaps are so irrelevant that the players don't have them. Does it mean that the result of the US Amateur is unfair - again, no, because it's not a handicap competition. Does it mean that the result of the Berkshire Trophy is unfair? Again, no. Does it mean that the better players are penalized in the Northumberland Golf Club Championship? Yet again, no.
If you were playing a pro I guess this was a social round. If he felt unfairly penalized for giving you shots he was severely lacking confidence in his own ability, in poor form, had a warped sense of right and wrong, a greatly exagerated sense of the importance of that match, thought you were a bandit or a combination of all of these things.