This topic came to mind when I learned recently that one of Texas' best women amateurs is stricken with an inoperable, late stage of cancer. I used to play with her quite a bit, and she was part of a large, competitive group I was in for many years. One of the most difficult things I had to do in golf was to pull her aside some 20 years ago to tell her that she was no longer welcomed to play with the group. For reasons that I still can't understand (the ususal BS that the guys felt inhibited playing with a woman because they might not be able to take a leak by a tree or cuss, etc.), a number in the group didn't want her in the game, and when it became apparent that I couldn't get them to back-off, I took it upon myself to deliver the bad news. She was much better about it than I was, but this episode still bothers me today.
Melvyn,
I would welcome your perspective. I am looking for historical information to qualify the ladies' rather matter-of-fact beliefs. With their love of the outdoors, competition, an active lifestyle, and social interaction, golf is right up their alley. If their perceptions are accurate, I better understand how we (in the U.S.) got to where we are, and golf is the poorer for it. It was always my impression that the origins of golf were more egalitarian/democratic.
Niall,
They both said girls, not boys and girls. And according to them, it was more institutional than the common, even today, of a sprinkling of males who don't want to be around women is sports and/or business.
Rich,
Thanks for your comments. Are there many outstanding women ams and pros hailing from Scotland or other parts of the UK?
The cruise was very enjoyable, though it furthered cemented my perspective that it would be a good thing for the U.S. not to become like Europe. It is great visiting different places, and having the option to return home. Vive la difference!