David;
In my opinion you would definitely not be out of line. Based on my long experience and little knowledge, I think most superintendents want to and would welcome opportunities to communicate with members, one on one or in groups, their maintenance practices, challenges, outlooks.
My sense is that the pitfall lies in a lay member thinking and acting as if he/she knows more about the world of agronomy, arboriculture, soil science, architecture...all the on the ground realities of this great and difficult profession, than the super knows.
Tom