Thanks to all!
After careful consideration, I believe that I have come up with the perfect format for Member-Guest Tournaments in the 21st Century:
Drumroll please...
Next year, our member-guest should have a one hole putt-off for the entire championship from 2" to maximize the time that we can socialize with our fellow members and their guests.
Everyone gets a trophy with "XYXY Club Member-Guest Winner" on it.
No one loses - Everybody's Happy!!!
Maximum drinking and eating.
Simple hat pool solution.
No potentially ugly rules disputes.
Less work for the staff.
Wives are estatic because we are not playing too much golf and having too good of a time.
I'm only kidding...
The format that I played in this weekend had a maximum of 5 points won per team per match at:
Win Hole - 1 point
Halve Hole - 1/2 point
Lose Hole - 0 points.
This scoring format was intended to keep everyone alive until the last match where you could win an unlimited amount of points.
For flighting, there was no qualifying. The maximum spread of handicap was 10 shots between the individual member/guest team. Flights were seeded by 100% of low handicap + 50% of the higher handicap.
This format did not work too well in the Champ. Flight where the +3 HCP guest and his 19 HCP partner were crucified at every turn. Every team got 5 points against them, and one lucky team was going to be able to "Unlimited" against them in the final 9 for their fifth 9 hole match before a deluge caused the event to be concluded. The +3 hcp player had to birdie the holes where he was giving strokes, and the 19 (Adjusted down to a 7) had to better his handicap by 6 strokes per nine (45 to a magical 39 each and every 9 ain't happening).
I might have liked the 9 hole format better if there was no social welfare of 5 point maximum, and we went to:
Win a hole = 1 Point/Lose a hole = -1 Point.
At the end of the day, I can't see spending all of that time, money and effort where the field is kept alive to keep them interested.
What happened to all of the people who said 36 holes eliminates the quirkiness/"Lightning in a bottle of 18 hole" match play? 9 holes is more random than 18, and the short term nature of the 9 hole format is a lot more superficial in regards to the socialization process. Quality over Quantity?
JWK
Part of the fun with 18 hole matches over 2-3 days is if you lose, the pressure's off. You can relax, play some golf on days 2 and or 3, and joke with the other team while making side bets. The edge is gone, but the competition's there. If you win, all the better. Losing on the 2nd or 3rd day is okay because you were in it.
I appreciate everyone's input...