Gary,
played there 2x, both in 50 mph howlers. It's lovely, remote, not great golf but a great place for any golf. Don't worry about no one answering. When we were last there in Sept. 2003, the demented housekeeper of a clubhouse woman who ran the thing looked like Kathy Bates w/o thorazine and was only slightly less coherent. Something about "the wind had beaten up the brains of her husband and herself."
Is the drive to Durness worth it? Absolutely, so long as you are into pilgrimages. There's other golf around there, to the east, but it's not as crazed or as wind-beaten as Durness' 9-hole track. Make the trek, even w/o reservations. You can always leave 20 Pounds in the box by the door.