Mayday I think this is a good topic, and I tend to agree with you.
My biggest problem is when members say that a hole is too "easy", its not like they are pros out there and making birdies every time they play it.
In my opinion a golf course is supposed to have some holes that are not as difficult as others, thats part of what builds character.
Recently at WM, we took down about 5-10 trees on the inside of the dog leg of 5, and you should have heard how the members complaining how this would make the whole too "easy". So we were discussing it in the grille room a couple of weeks ago and my brother, who is the current club champion said "so what if its easy". I really thought it made a lot of sense, who cares if one shot is a little easier than it used to be. These members talk like they are tiger and phil, people just need to relax and HAVE FUN!
On a side note of fun, I played West Chester Country Club in the GAP matches yesterday, its a 9 hole that apparently dates back to 1898. Man, that little course packs in a LOT of fun! I would add it to the list of hidden gems in this area. Some of the greens are a little flat for my taste but the course sits on some great land.
Jason