Haven,
I was not trying to be a hardass, thats one downside to computers, you can't decipher tone. I would clarify if someone is being a jerk before going off on them. I simply asked some questions and provided some advice. Have you read Strawn's book? Being a golf course architect is not just about designing great golf courses. You have to sell yourself, deal with builders/shapers, environmental issues that can bog projects down for years, massage out of control client egos, etc... The list goes on forever.
Personally, if I wanted to get creative and impact golf course design I would learn to be a shaper. You cut out most of the pain in the butt parts of the job and get to focus on creating something.
Good luck with the path you take.