Jeff-
Good questions!
Here are some answers:
1. If it's a weekday, you might get lucky, but I wouldn't show up that late in the day without a tee time--figuring darkness falls sometime in the 6:30-7:00 range. Anytime after a 2:00 tee time may not finish.
2. From JFK, it's only about 20 miles--could be 20 minutes, could be an hour and a half. I don't recall any construction on the Southern State last week, but this changes all the time. 1010 am (1010 Wins) has traffic and weather on the 1's, so this helps. PM me if you need a couple of alternate routes.
3. You could try to make a tee time--mind you, if you don't purchase it an hour before, they'll re-sell it. Especially for Black, it'll go quick. Never had it happen with the other courses, though. This happened to me once, getting stuck in traffic going out there. Missed the 1 hour window by 20 minutes or so, it was gone. What can you do? Now, I'm not taking into account delays at the airport, car rental hassles, or the like associated with airport travel. I can help you with registering if you don't have a system ID.
4. The Red is very, very good--and fall is a wonderful time to play it. Hopefully, it will get windy and dry between now and then, as we've gotten soaked the past week up here. Red is never a bad choice, and I'm of the opinion that you can have more fun if you're a little bit off--the Black will kick your ass and eat your lunch, the Red will just bruise you.
Red is especially good in the afternoon, when the winds kick up. Most of the first nine is pretty sheltered with trees--but once you hit #8 through #15 and then #18, it's game on!
Demand falls off a little late in the year--but not much. There are still plenty who are there to play it. I've still seen people out there at 4:30 in the afternoon (in October) camping out when I'm leaving the park for the day.
PM me if you need any other help/suggestions. Tell me your days off, too--if mine sync up, and you need a playing partner, I'd be happy to join you.
Best,
Doug