Tom Paul:
Jay Sigel has an "inherent advantage" over me too.
But, let me respond to your earlier comment about a debating society.
During my years at Princeton I was quite fortunate to be a student of Professor Suzanne Keller, one of the most respected academic feminists of the 1970’s. Keller taught a course on sex roles in society. The course, as you might imagine, was dominated by very bright women who felt quite comfortable in Keller’s class and usually intimidated the male students.
Believing that it was better to engage than sit on the sidelines, I often found myself at the middle of debates on various topics that Keller would introduce to get the dialogue going. While I didn’t mind the discussion, over time I noticed it became adversarial to the point of being unpleasant.
So, one day I decided to keep my mouth shut and listened for about 45 minutes while one point of view was being repeated without debate. It seemed that my silence had the effect of shutting down other male students who apparently had no desire to debate - and be portrayed as dinosaurs - on their own.
Shortly, before the class ended for the day Professor Keller, always one to encourage her students, had enough. “Tim”, she asked, “why are you sitting quietly?” Duly provoked, I launched into a diatribe on why I disagreed with the many single minded points that I heard expressed.
I’ll never forget Professor Keller smiling when I finally finished.
“You really wanted to sit quietly, didn’t you?” Keller said.
“Well, yes, I did”.
But, Keller would have none of that.
“Tim , I don’t want people sitting quietly in my class” she said, expressing a higher loyalty to being a teacher than being a feminist.
Other than Fouad Ajami, the well known Middle East expert who served as my thesis advisor, Keller emerged as my favorite professor at Princeton, a woman I thought the world of. Though very feminist, Keller abhorred the politically correct feeling it had no place in her classroom or in any other discussion. So, years later I have little concern about expressing unpopular views some find “irrational”, thanks, in part, to Professor Keller.
The young women I've met dismiss the idea of anyone being allowed to play from different tees in competition. I have a feeling Professor Keller would view them as her kind of feminist.