Pat,
You choose two highly exclusive, out of the mainstream clubs, Garden City and Friar's Head, to argue one of my points. No doubt that you guys have wonderful cultures at both places. A visit to the nearby tournament course, Bethpage- Black, home of the five plus hour round is more of the norm.
As to Winged Foot, you could put me on the senior tees in an Open setup and I couldn't break 100. With narrowed fairways, high rough, and those pushed-up, well-guarded greens firm and fast, par for me would be bogey. The angle of attack wouldn't even enter my mind as I would be sufficiently preoccupied with getting the ball anywhere that I could find it and hit it again. Admitedly, my handicap has gone up, but I can probably still play competitively with 90% of the golfers.
The Tour should get an award for truth in advertising when they say that those guys are good. They are actually fantastic for reasons above and beyond modern technology.
By all means, restrict their technology; firm up the greens and hide the hole locations for them; set up temporary teeing areas at all sorts of angles and further back. Let us mortals play under these conditions occasionally, but please don't have courses designed and maintained to tour professional standards. I don't care if they shoot 64 on my home course nearly as much as me shooting 94 so that par is meaningful to a few.
As to playing the right tees, that is something I need to really think about. In the past I've thought that as long as I could reach the large majority of holes in regulation from the backs, that that is where I should play from. I still can, but my scores have really gone straight up hitting a bunch of longer irons and fairway metals. What to do!