To all: Out of respect for ChrisB, I chose not to post this on his bias thread. If you have the patience to read through this post, you will understand why I considered doing so.
Mr. Mucci
I offer the following with the sincerest of intentions. Not to discredit you,
but rather to possibly help you understand why the STYLE of your posts triggers a firestorm of hostility that many (see the other bias thread) view as not in the best interests of the site. Now if you don’t need my help
then just ignore the rest of this post, but just think about the connection. You have often expressed a hope that more industry people would participate in this discussion group and, in fact, when G Tiska participated on this very thread you spanked
everybody for not taking advantage of his participation and encouraged everybody to ask him more pertinent questions (btw, what happened to Mr. Tiska
). Yet we have on this very thread industry sources (Rees Jones of all people
) indicating that these types of threads, if anything, discourage their participation. Now you can blame that on others for their reactions to your posts, but forget who is to blame because the result is really the only thing that is important anyway. The FACT is that every single time you accuse people of bias, non-fact-based posts, deceit, fraud, etc., these firestorms erupt. You have the right to ignore this fact and continue to post as you choose, but then you must also accept responsibility for the consequences of that choice as well.
Think of it like the 1st Amendment, which protects free speech, but not speech intended to incite a riot!
Recent Examples:
1. “I never called MDugger a liar. I called his presentation disingenuous and a fraud.” Post 349 Disingenuous is defined as not straightforward; crafty. Fraud is defined as a deception deliberately practiced in order to secure unfair or unlawful gain; a piece of trickery; one who defrauds; cheat. Clearly, both require an “intent” to deceive or be crafty, which is exactly what you have expressly alleged (“MDugger attempted to DELIBERATELY (emphasis added) deceive GCA'ers” Post 321). Even if mdugger’s photos were in fact deceiving as you contend, he needed an “intent” for you to fairly use those words. In any event, I think I would prefer to be called a liar than a disingenuous fraud!
“Before Mike Erdmann disputed the location and the representation made by MDugger, I knew those photos were not of the Sandpines site. One only had to notice the Pacific Ocean, the vegetation on the dunes, view maps and aerials of the site and view the pictures on the Sandpines website to establish that the pictures offered bore no resemblance to the Sandpines site.” “If you LOOK at the aerial photo of Sandpines (fact), and you combine Mike Erdmann's first hand knowledge of the area, the ONLY (emphasis added) conclusion that can be prudently drawn is that MDugger's photos look nothing like the pre-construction site at Sandpines.” Post 321
If it was so obvious and constituted the ONLY conclusion that could be reached, then how can you say that mdugger’s presentation was so fraudulent and deceitful when you, yourself, weren’t deceived, I wasn’t deceived and many others weren’t deceived either. “EVERYBODY thought that those photos were a representation of the site or land surrounding Sandpines.” Post 321 EVERYBODY? Don’t you and I, yes even I the anonymous, count for anything?
I believed (and continue to believe) that mdugger believes that the photos are somewhat representative of the Sandpines site (not identical by any means), and Mr. Naccarato apparently agrees. Two people that have both seen the site apparently believe that the photos are in fact somewhat representative of the Sandpines site. Does that make them right? No, but in their minds Yes. Perhaps they are looking solely at the sand dunes and not the vegetation, but only they could say. Sand is sand mind you!
Intent to deceive though? That’s a stretch unless you have some kind of special brain scan to prove it!
Perhaps we should just think of you as the Prosecutor, who can make allegations of guilt (FRAUD!!) before proof, as opposed to the Judge or Jury, who is supposed to presume innocence until guilt is proven.
Do you by any chance see the irony in this?
So your choice of words, perhaps as much as anything, is what often triggers these firestorms in my OPINION. Why couldn’t you just come online and say: Mdugger, it is clear from your post that your photos are not of the Sandpines site itself, but are those photos truly representative in any way of the Sandpines site in your opinion? If so, how so?” Same message, but no intent to incite a riot!
2. Okay, now everybody take five minutes, WIPE THE EGG OFF YOUR FACE (emphasis added), and let's get back to discussing architecture and golf courses based on fact not fiction.” Post #305 “But, I understand, you bet on the wrong horse and lost.” “You bet on the wrong horse and lost and are now trying to cover up your own naivety and the continued foolishness of your position.
" Post #321
This isn’t about winning and losing. Comments like that, even if said in jest (there’s always some truth in jest), only further the perception amongst many that you view this discussion group as a debate club or court of law. Is that really what you want it to be? Remember, it’s your choice.
By the way, if there is egg on anybody’s face, you threw the egg, so shouldn’t you do the wiping!!
3. “Oh, I think a name change would be in order
” Post 305 I am taking the comment, grin and all, in the humorous vein that I believe you offered it. But you often make comments like that as a way of saying YOU’RE WRONG. My moniker by no means is a guarantee that I am always right or that I am immune to making mistakes. When I do so, I will have no problem fessing up. I suggest that you consider doing the same. It’s the civil thing to do.
4. “I know what Tommy Naccarato's opinion on Sandpines is, We've had many discussions about it off this thread and website, so once again, you're wrong.” Post 321 See, there’s that YOU’RE WRONG thing again.
If you knew Mr. Naccarato’s OPINION from offline discussions before he shared it with the rest of us online, an OPINION that we now know to be in disagreement with Mr. Erdmann’s OPINION, then why characterize Mr. Erdmann’s OPINION as FACT or me as WRONG or mdugger as a FRAUD?
Remember, this is not about right and wrong and people can have a difference of OPINION with respect to the same issue. Wouldn’t it be easier to just say that you might have rushed to judgment, rather than throwing the dictionary at us?
Or are you suggesting that Mr. Naccarato is being fraudulent and deceitful by expressing an online OPINION different than his offline OPINION?
If you so vehemently disagree with the substance of a post, why not just present FACTS that dispute or bring into question the substance of that post. If you had just diverted 10% of the time that you have devoted to reading and writing posts on this single thread to getting pre-construction pictures of Sandpines from Rees as requested, we would already have our answer. Or is it possible that you have seen such photos and wouldn’t dare post them?
I apologize to Ran Morrissett for taking up so much bandwidth with this post and would understand if he chose to delete it. However, Ran, can you at least confirm that Mr. Mucci read it before doing so?
I apologize to ANYBODY else, including Mr. Mucci, that doesn’t think that this post was written with a sincere attempt at HUMOR and a sincere intent to help improve this Discussion Group, which has great potential, but is not yet THERE in my OPINION. The Morrissetts have done an amazing job with the rest of this website. It would truly be a shame for this Discussion Group not to achieve that same level of quality and the only way it’s going to get THERE is for change to occur from within.
May this be the Fact Patrol's last and final post! Mr. Mucci, please for at least my sake, make that come true!