a wonderful post, on many different levels.....IT'S WORTH READING TO THE END..
and Kudo's to Peter Herreid for great writing and timing........
several GCA posters and lurkers were spending 3 days in chilly mid fl this past weekend,
and at some point Sat eve, after several bottles of very nice red (corkage only $15..

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Dan Taylor, an actual participant in this heartrending tale, regaled our group, with a shorter, though excellant, verbal synopsis...
Dan started, "How could you forget...."
sadly, some of us had.....