Cary:
Now that is one hell of a great question, one that I do consider from time to time. Know any single digit females willing to be a homewrecker?
But as I say, well... the good does outweigh the bad... and it is fun in a way to have a separate interest. As I stay away from decorating and remodeling, she stays away from golf... and we're both happy that way. As you can imagine, too much interest from the uninformed party could really muck things up for the addicted one.