Based purely on the golf experience, I would pick Friar's for sure. It has such drama and I think every hole is terrific. Both from a historical viewpoint and to be a part of the ambiance of a famous landmark golfcourse, Garden City obviously wins out. They were real unhappy to see my wife pull into the parking lot to drop me off- no women allowed- but she stuck around long enough to take a picture of my host and me in our jackets, golf shirts and shorts, with penny loafers- all required to get into the clubhouse ( even in 100 plus heat!). Great fun though.