Go West, young man, go West!
While the two courses at Bandon may or may not be as good as NGLA, Crystal Downs, Pinehurst #2, etc., they do have several advantages:
1. The architects of the courses are living, and at least one of them visits the course regularly to fine tune his design.
2. It is likely that there will be at least one new course built nearby them in the near future whose construction you can observe from day one.
3. Because the courses are so new you can really see the hand of each architect, whereas the hand of the architect at older courses tends to be blurred by time.
4. Remote as it may be, it seems to be a fun place for a young kid
5. The owner/developer is both exemplary and still actively involved in the project
6. You will probably be able to play the courses much more often and more creatively than you would at any of the other courses that have been mentioned.
Whatever you choose and/or are able to do, enjoy.
Rich